After reading an article about how the number of phone calls made is decreasing, I feel I have to interject something. This obviously shouldn’t be news to most people, because most of us are right in the middle of it (in North America, anyway). The fact is that people are talking less and less in favor of texting each other. While this is an interesting shift in our culture, I’m starting to think things are going a bit too far.

It seems that since widespread adoption of the internet, although more and more people have become seemingly connected through social networking and other mediums, people are drifting further and further apart. A friend is no longer a friend. A real friend is now what a friend was, and a friend is someone you say “damn we haven’t talked in years, how r u?” to. Communities are popping up everywhere online that replace the communities around us physically.

This in itself I don’t feel is bad. A lot of people who never would have met are meeting and sharing new ideas. Information spreads more rapidly. Cultural consciousness is more global, which in most cases is a very good thing.

I think things start to go wrong when people get addicted to this information overload though. They use it as a fuel for everyday distraction, a replacement for the communities they live in, and a tool to deliver opinions and beliefs to them when they would have otherwise had to think (although this last item is true of most media).

Also, it’s one thing to not be in front of someone when you talk to them. A voice conversation can have emotion and depth, but it can also be quick and effortless. The fact that it’s being replaced by one-off messages that are 100% ignorable and have no real content to them is kind of sickening. I’ve heard arguments that “I text someone when it doesn’t make sense to have a whole conversation,” but I’ll see the same person texting back and forth with someone for 10 minutes straight. Or a text is delivered and the person who sent it squirms in anticipation for the reply, which may never come.

What’s wrong with a phone call? Granted, if you’re in a bar and it’s very loud, texting would be appropriate. If you call someone and they don’t pick up, either they don’t want to talk or, god forbid, they aren’t right next to their phone all times of the day. If you want to talk to someone, just call them. I don’t believe texting is a viable replacement for what was the last string of human contact we had.

That all said, I know it’s a giant ball and it rolls where it rolls and there’s no stopping it. There’s no problem with being aware of things that are going on around us though. I feel like each time a real connection between two real people is replaced with something artificial, our culture as a whole goes just a little bit more insane. I’m interested to see how this all pans out, mainly because I don’t have a whole lot of attachment to what our culture is now.